Over the last few weeks, I’ve been paying modest attention to an embroiled debate among the deaf blogosphere about certain issues surrounding Christianity and homosexuality, especially it had started from a DeafVideo vlog few weeks ago, now since deleted from DVTV. Nevertheless, it had spilled over to here and here, then expanded to here and here. Now, don’t get all emotionally work up over this blog from me, just think and re-read it all carefully before. Neither deaf Christians nor deaf gays/lesbians are wrong about their own positions and opinions, no one can truly come to the same conclusions on either subject. One is inasmuch passionate about its beliefs as the other is.
To be a homosexual is a personal choice, just as one to be a Christian is a personal choice as well. To proclaim a specific life-affirming choice for a person’s lifestyle is fundamentally wrong. In fact, applying that choice in a “lifestyle” is totally inappropriate, as to use to describe someone’s particular (or peculiar, in some cases) living preferences based on a very specific personal choice for specific reasons. A choice is a choice is a choice that may last a lifetime or not. Period. People choose to be a gay or a Christian (or both) from a lifetime of experiences, struggles and consequences, whether on their terms or life happened. Moreover, I do not subscribe to the false notion that a human being is born gay, as the “born gay” idea had its wandering origins from Karl Heinrich Ulrichs, the pioneer gay founder of a German homosexual movement in the last half of the 19th century, which it seeks a legalization of sodomy, pedophilia and homosexual activities in a society not used to that kind of thing in the public consciousness. The four chapters of the nicely-researched “Born Gay Hoax” can be started here, especially recent studies have largely debunked the “born gay” theory.
This is not to say that the scientific research into homosexuality is without merit, in fact, more objective and unbiased studies are needed to further examine the deeper roots of homosexuality, without any influence or fund from moneyed same-sex activists, sexual psychologists and powerful organizations that wholly support the gay/lesbian cause to make everyone gay. Or even Christian or fundamentalist organizations seeking a favorable outcome to support underhanded efforts to criminalize homosexual acts in public and private environments. It must be free of political or religious considerations and let the public take it for what it can do for some, but not to blow it out of proportions.
The word, lifestyle, was first coined by an Austrian Jewish psychologist, Alfred Adler, in the last century. He described it as a collection of one’s values, behaviors and actions in his or her own environment, surrounded by personal attachment to cultural, religious and social aspects from his/her upbringing and representing to others as what he or she is all about. A person’s lifestyle is pretty much a boarded concept, if you will, since there are some things in a person’s life may apply as his or her ways of life to others. However, there are some things in a person’s life that he or she did not wanted others to know or share publicly. This is why I believe a person’s sexuality is rather a personal or private choice and whether that person’s sexuality is of no relevance to me in real life (in workplace, etc., for example). Do I need to be informed or aware that a person’s entire lifestyle is based solely on his or her preferred sexuality? That it makes any difference to anybody getting by the grinds and motions of life? Does it matter to everyone?
I believe in live-and-let-live philosophy and the Golden Rule. I work with gay and lesbian people, deaf and hearing, before, even few of my ex-bosses were gay and lesbian, they were pleasant and professional. I was even invited to a housewarming party of a gay couple who did an impressive work in renovating a 1900s-era house, which spurned a renaissance and renovation of old houses in an once high-crime, declining neighborhood. Columbus, Ohio is one of the most gay-friendly cities in America, although the city, especially within Central Ohio, have the largest growth of Christian denominations as well as small but fast-growing Muslim and Jewish communities.
Which bring to the subject of Christianity. Some Christians, in general (and depending on which denomination), are already open and being inclusive with gay and lesbian people, perhaps on a more humanistic and civil right ground, but not all Christians are of the same opinion in regarding to gays and lesbians, especially the choice of homosexuality in their lives.
To date, there is no established or definitive Christian position on homosexuality. There are many Christian denominations holding different views or interpretations on the Scriptures about homosexuality, some are more orthodox or strict than any other that’s holding a more liberal, open-minded position. Generally, the fundamentalists’ position on homosexuality is just this: they reject the unnatural and “sinful” way of people engaging in same-sex behaviors and actions. The Bible teaches the fundamentalists to love the sinners, for the sinners fall short the glory of God and needed to be taught and saved to the righteous path, for that the sins of man lead to hatred, depravity, immorality, violence, cruelty, evil and darkness among mankind. If the sinner is unrepentant and remains at his/her present choice(s), then the sinner cannot be saved and, therefore, be doomed to eternal damnation. Let me be clear, the Christian fundamentalists are not homophobic (which mean fear of homosexuals), it is just that they reject the sinful, unnatural practice of homosexuality among some people and they have every right to reject it outright, deeming it as impure and immoral to mankind.
I’m not saying of this from my perspective, but to put myself in the shoes of any Christian fundamentalist who saw all of man’s sins as abhorring and malicious to the very God who gave Life and Light to all of mankind and to the World. To some of you reading this blog, especially atheists, this may seem a fantastical ideal. But to the Christian fundamentalists, this matter to them the most, deaf or hearing. Every sinner’s soul matter the most to God. Otherwise, the three-faced Devil have them all in its fiendish grips to devour and sate its unending hunger, the doomed souls empower the Beast.
From a liberal Christian’s view, the sins of mankind must be addressed in a more, deeper and compassionate understanding of the problematic root causes and work to solve them by helping the sinners to improve or correct the problems themselves spiritually and personally. This is not to suggest the homosexuality can be corrected or fixed from there, but a deeper root cause have to be examined by one personally, perhaps caused by past life problems, family dysfunctions and/or abuses. For some, it may be of genetic nature that could seem as dysfunctional or, perhaps, deliberately “coded” by an unknown, mysterious factor that is yet to be identified scientifically.
Maybe it was the aliens from several tens of thousands years ago manipulating with primitive humans’ DNA and left some unidentified junk DNA codes in them? But seriously, human genome is a complex system consisted of 1.5% of identifiable codes and 97% of everything else, some largely unidentifiable.
Nonetheless, given the deep-seated anger that a majority of gays and lesbians have toward Christians over this sensitive subject of scriptural teachings about homosexuality and the “intolerable” Christian treatment of gays and lesbians, the problem may be more due to an ignorant and, mostly, misunderstood teaching of the Scriptures by those who either lived in the shadow of fear of sinners out to get them (paranoia, risk of persecution) or being ashamed of their sinful ways past or present (risk of repeating “mistakes”, living with past consequences). Christians, deaf or hearing, well-educated or not, needed not to get involved or engaged into the practice of intolerance, hatred, cruelty, violence or malice against gays and lesbians. To do that is sinful. It goes against what the Christ Jesus have taught through the Gospels.
Something about turning the other cheek, hmm?
Christians of all denominations needed to face up to the fact they are NOT appointed or anointed by God or the Christ Jesus to be the judge, jury and executioner of all mankind just because there are sins and sinners in the world. The job is reserved exclusively and solely to God alone.
Christians needed not to impose their Christian values and laws on everyone else who’s not Christian or whatever, especially gays and lesbians. It’s not right. How would Christians feel if Muslims, Jews or hedonistic atheists impose their values and laws upon them arbitrarily and without regard to their feelings? The world is not completely without limits on laws and values from all aspects of religion, culture and life, yet it would be extremely difficult to settle on a single set of laws and values that everyone on the planet would agree to that.
Christians, gays/lesbians, sinners, atheists, Muslims, Jews, you, me and, virtually, everyone else on God’s green Earth, live and let live.
Let God take care of all of us in the Day of Judgment. Our choices in life determine our fates.
NOTE: The Catechism of the Catholic Church on homosexuality is seen here. Other religions on homosexuality can be viewed here.